Obviously, this is more of an issue for people who are naturally accomdating. People like this flex according to what others might think of them. Admittedly, sometimes I can be a bit of a ‘people pleaser’ myself and can be very aware about people around me. It doesn’t help that I tend to overanalyse everything, which can magnify even the smallest hypothetical situations……
The only opinions which REALLY matter are from those know your Ins and Outs very well. These people can give constructive, well-informed critique that can be taken to heart. On the other hand…if someone who is ignorant to your entire character speculates and hates you—well, be comforted knowing that his/her views are simply ignorant speculations. Why should you alter your character in order to satisfy those who haven’t even expended an ounce of energy to understand you?
Anyway. Live your life, people.
You only have one.