{"id":52776,"date":"2020-11-11T20:57:46","date_gmt":"2020-11-12T04:57:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.najin.ca\/journal\/?p=52776"},"modified":"2025-07-15T15:44:18","modified_gmt":"2025-07-15T22:44:18","slug":"changes-timelapse-painting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.najin.ca\/journal\/changes-timelapse-painting\/","title":{"rendered":"Changes: Timelapse Painting"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/i.postimg.cc\/rpvbkFqR\/changes.jpg?w=740&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"video-container\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"740\" height=\"417\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/psY3CWbx0qc?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;start=421&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Cha-cha-changes<br>\ud83d\udd17<br>I&#8217;ve been reflecting on this topic a lot lately, especially as Vancouver&#8217;s leaves have been turning beautiful colours with Autumn&#8230;!<br>\ud83c\udf41<br>As we all know, changes are inevitable. These kind of changes make us feel helpless and out-of-control. Although these are hard to swallow, it&#8217;s usually best to acknowledge the difficulty of these changes, then adapt and roll with them.<br>\ud83d\udc63<br>However, there are changes you can spur on, which is empowering&#8230;! For me, these have recently involved toxic relationships. I&#8217;m a naturally accommodating person and tend to agree just to please others. It has always been hard for me to say &#8220;no&#8221; because I often see the good in people, give them the benefit of the doubt, and avoid conflict like the plague. Although it&#8217;s easier for me to say &#8220;yes&#8221; than to engage in immediate conflict, this has led me down some dark paths of anxiety, being manipulated, and being taken advantage of.<br>\ud83d\udc64<br>Although it has been difficult and awkward, it has overall been freeing to practise setting healthy boundaries with others. It&#8217;s a change that has been longgg overdue in my life and so far, it&#8217;s one of most valuable lessons I&#8217;ve learned in my adult life.<br>It took me years to muster up the courage to start practising this. But if a huge wimp like me can do it, I believe anyone who grapples with boundaries can too!<br>\ud83d\udcaa\ud83c\udffc<br>Model and lightening reference was from pinterest (someone notify me know if you stumble on the original photographer!). Timelapse video will be up soon.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Cha-cha-changes\ud83d\udd17I&#8217;ve been reflecting on this topic a lot lately, especially as Vancouver&#8217;s leaves have been turning beautiful colours with Autumn&#8230;!\ud83c\udf41As we all know, changes are inevitable. These kind of changes make us feel helpless and out-of-control. 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