Comments on: spreading yourself too thin.

By: Alphonso Brew

Alphonso Brew — Wed, 28 Apr 2010 22:47:19 +0000

Aw, this was a really quality post. In theory I’d like to write like this too – taking time and real effort to make a good article… but what can I say… I procrastinate alot and never seem to get something done.

By: Najin J

Najin J — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 22:47:24 +0000

Posted by: closer
Date: Thursday, 2009-02-05, 8:38 Am

What you are ranting about is a very common trait of Aquarius people.
Good luck with it and remember it really is ok!

IF you are looking to “change” it really is about mutual effort. I give people the full benefit of the doubt and will try to (re)establish communications. When they dont, oh well…

I meet new people daily, it really is nice and exactly how you describe it. What I do try is to keep talking to them. Since it is the “model” that works for me and natural selection really does work. You’ll be surprised at the amount of people that “drop” from my life. Really, its not my fault or theirs. It is what it is.

By: Najin J

Najin J — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 22:46:17 +0000

Posted by: takezomiyamoto
Date: Thursday, 2009-02-05, 10:38 Am

i think no matter how many friends you have or don’t have, one can never shake that lonely and empty feeling. i could never outrun it and i don’t think i ever will, its just something i accept with a passing glance.
since i have always been the nice accommodating pleaser, i have made a lot of friends no matter the situation; some have come, some have remained, and some, the ones who put in the mutual effort into becoming the true sense of a good friend, have done so. i think it comes down to the effort they put in.

hopefully you’ll find the ones who mirror you,the ones who challenge you, and the ones who are right for you no matter the circumstance you find yourself in on a daily basis. i wish you luck pookster:) heres to finding those soul mate friendships.

*raises sundae glass*
*clinks pookie patot’s sundae glass*
ready…set….EAT!…

By: Najin J

Najin J — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 22:46:11 +0000

(excerpt from old blog)

Posted by: rombusempire
Date: Thursday, 2009-01-29, 4:49 Pm

“I’ll still be friendly towards a fresh face, but I will not seek them out.
I’ll be perceptive to new ideas, but I want to spend quality time with existing friends that have ideas and values that I wholly identify with.
I’m going to spend time with the people who will, in turn, identify and embrace my deeper ideas and nuances too. ”
Bravo. As I mentioned before, deeper relationships with fewer people is healthier than a bunch of shallow relationships. I know exactly how it is to feel that I am surrounded by people yet I feel very lonely.